it makes you remember and forces you to sit down and reanalyze all sort of decisions. no, i am not sorry. also, i think pluto approaching at a fast pace my moon is to blame for this. MOAR intense feelings - and previous experience says that feelings usually are the kiss of death. fine, i'm dramatizing, they're not deadly, they just hurt a lot and leave you slightly paranoid. i'm officially a paranoid relationship-junkie and proud of it. i'm a total rebel here. in a world which tells you "you don't need anybody and lust is better than love because love makes you loose your independence" i say that a significant relationship makes you grow. even a less significant relationship makes you grow as a person. and compromising and being willing to meet half-way the other is not a bad thing at all.