look, i knew it all along, okay? there's a reason why aquarians and librans go well together - you just have to find the right aquarian (and the EPIC AWESOME PART is when he is actively trying to make you happy.  and you get to wake up together every morning and you get to do other stuff than wondering what the hell is going on which is a huge step forward for humanity in general. the feeling of actual progress is a huge boon and the fact that there are no nightmarish discussions over the SAME OLD UNRESOLVED ISSUES is such a relief)