again, words of wisdom from mystic medusa
"Dark Moon Bitch Goddess Lilith is in late Aries and opposing Saturn: that combined with Uranus Direct has quite a few peeps telling tradition, patriarchy, one authority in particular to go fuq itself – definitely a spirited re-think of received opinion, especially from older males/Saturn figures."
wow, that sort of explains everything, since saturn is on my sun and by extension lilith is opposing those 2 planets. and pluto too. and my natal lilith.