....most of them not the easy way. actually it was pretty gory some of the times. and considering that a vast majority of my dating life was about aquarians, i know what i am talking about:
- stand my ground.
- saying what i have to say in a very direct and precise way because allusions just won't do it.
- the above 2 things are the main reasons why i come off as blunt, confrontational and forceful. the "break my heart and i'll break your neck" attitude came after a series of unfortunate events that did not end until i pounded them into the ground.
- independence (you know, my instinct tells me to be co-dependent. then i met some aquarians who would not co-depend. i would still gladly and happily co-depend but on some normal terms)
- self-confidence. that was also forged during the water-bearer wars. partially because if you survive those battles, no one can practically do anything to you.