found a post today about relationships on a blog i read - reading blogs is a ...guilty pleasure, i guess. plus it suits my up close and personal nature. that is, it lets me peek into people's mind and see how they work, what ticks them and so on and so forth - which of course it's interesting, because it's the R word (sacred in the book of libra). the bottom line is the author seems to consider them exhausting and too complicated. well, no one said meeting the other is a simple thing. on the other hand, you can't expect the other to adjust to your every whim without giving something in return - but that's a little difficult to explain to a cappy who fantasizes about muscular actors, has raunchy language and a whole theory to reinvent her life.