i just love the first phrase of sasstrology: "Embrace the weird". Then it goes something like this... "It’s the fuel that will drive your vehicle towards its new destination. Don’t turn your nose up at something because it appears unsavory. Let’s say you’re having sexual fantasies that would make an avid Penthouse reader blush. Those fantasies contain vital information. Isn’t there value in knowing what’s kicking around in the depths of your soul? It’s all grist for the mill. You can use the material you deem “not nice” as a means to punish yourself, or you can think of it as old clay for you to re-shape into something that is beneficial and beautiful."
 let me point something out, sasstrology. i've always embraced the weird to a point where i have no idea how a "normal" relationship feels like (normal = most people's idea of relationship. where you like each other, date for a while, move in together and eventually have 1.5 kids, an apartment  and relatives visiting for dinner). but then again, you can't ask normal of aquarians. or gemini, for that matter. and since attraction involving other signs is virtually zero, this is a moot point. my question is - define the weird. then again, of course penthouse readers would blush at my fantasies. especially those involving flaying exes alive and putting their heads on a spike, medieval style. of course, it could be shaped into something beautiful, although we should define beautiful here. in conclusion: more weirdness. thank you, universe.