dealing with pluto - never easy, i can tell you that, even though i will have to live with it because it is so. what i don't understand though is some people who refuse to be happy. who are scared of being happy. who would rather wallow in their own vats of resentments and fears and stuff that make me go seriously??? like, are you for real???? than actually live and enjoy the plethora of wonderful things out there. yeah, sure, there's a price for everything and consequences to deal with.
also, a thing i noticed. people that i had the longest albeit slightly deranged relationships with, ALL had a plutonian flavor.