must say, that was one tough question that i've been considering for the past few days, when i was not concerned with the plethora of tv stuff. because it's much easier to say what i don't like in a guy, which is a long and extended list and i am not entirely sure i want to add more items to that.
basically, after mulling over it intensely, making a retrospective (Saturn retrograde stuff) it dawned on me. i like men who like me and show that. i like men who are interested in my tastes, likes and dislikes. i like men who don't take themselves too seriously and are quite social. i like men who are smart, even a little quirky (bonus if i feel that i can learn something from them). i like men who have an artistic streak, are ambitious and have a touch of class. i like men i can rely on and who can make me laugh. i love laughing and wit and teasing. i also like men who can flirt, who open doors (extra bonus for opening the car door) and make all those lovely gentlemanly gestures naturally, who tell me i have pretty feet and hands. doesn't hurt if they're sexy too - which has nothing to do with looks and everything to do with vibes. there are drop dead gorgeous people who are just as sexy as a dead fish and people who may not be models but just ooze sexiness. i want the second variety.